Cujo, I'm not sure that this message board is the best place to be seeking "relationship advice", but I will offer you this - if you are not married to this woman and you don't have children with this woman, then it seems like it might be best for you to move on. If you own property together or if there are "mutual belongings" in your household, then you may want to seek legal advice. Good luck bud!
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